Monday, August 23, 2010

Is it Fate or just a Fling

Boy do we have a hot topic for you today. We also have a fabulous feature blogger. Ms. Baby Plan at The Baby Plan submitted this topic:

Although you love your husband, something has changed between the two of you and lately you have started to fantasize about a guy at work. In your heart you know you still love your spouse, but you cannot help how you are feeling about this new person. You really start to believe it is love. At home, you become distant and start behaving strangely. You tell one of your best friends how you feel. Together you start to observe this guy to see if he has any feelings for you.

The chance comes and you find yourself telling this person how much you like him. Lucky you. He likes you too... as a friend. He goes on to say that you are great but he does not want to ruin his relationship.

If you are really hardcore head over heels for him, what do you understand from his statement,"does not want to ruin his relationship [with you]"?

What do you do after that episode and why? Lets go wild with our minds and chat.
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Grace · 764 weeks ago

I would take from his statement that he was already in a relationship. But even if he was talking about the relationship with me, I would be embarrassed and would stay far away from him. It's a boring answer, I know, but I'm watching a report on TV about Tiger Woods' divorce.
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YUMMommy · 764 weeks ago

I would refocus myself on my marriage. Take it as sign and second chance from God. It's always easier to see the grass as being greener on the other side once you've grown complacent in a relationship. I think that I would certainly invest more time in figuring out when and why my attraction for my spouse left and how to get it back.
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keyalus · 764 weeks ago

Yes! I would be embarrassed but so happy that his rejection shook me back into my senses because this whole episode should never have happened. Figuring out what is wrong at home is the best idea.
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Ms. BPlan · 764 weeks ago

I do so agree with you girls. Because if you married you spouse it means that the love cannot be replaced with a new one. One should always go back to how it was and rekindle it.

YUMMommy you are right to write: "It's always easier to see the grass as being greener on the other side once you've grown complacent in a relationship." Relationships need attention as a plant needs water and love!
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chriswife 58p · 764 weeks ago

I would be sooooo embarrassed that he rejected me. And take it as a sign that I am supposed to go back and work on my marriage.
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Margaret · 764 weeks ago

I would leave it alone. I like him and all but I am married and that isn't right.
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Rhonda · 764 weeks ago

The first thing I thought of when I saw this is the 80/ 20 rule. "The rule says that you get about 80% of what you need from your mate. Sometimes we meet someone who has that other 20% that we're not getting and the 20% looks real good, but if you trade it for the 80%, then you'll really see how good you had it." In other words, the grass isn't always greener. His rejection is a good thing!

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